A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can’t have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.
Men don’t equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband).
For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.
The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. She can even accept poison from the boyfriend to eliminate her husband.That is the main reason why it is to dangerous for a woman to cheat, so men be careful once you discover your woman is cheating.
In the heart of Delta State, Nigeria, lies the serene town of Illah, where the River Niger flows gracefully alongside its vibrant community. It is here that we find a leader whose reign has brought prosperity, unity, and progress to the land – His Royal Majesty, Obi Slyvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam.
Obi Sylvester Enechaziam Jugai King of Illah Kingdom
Since ascending to the throne in March 2018, Obi Slyvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam has led Illah with wisdom, compassion, and a deep commitment to the well-being of his people. Born on October 3, 1939, to Mr. Jugai Enechaziam, he was destined for greatness from an early age.
The Local Government Chairman, Honorable Esewezie Innocent, welcomed His Excellency, Barrister Kingsley Burutu Otuaro, Deputy Governor of Delta State, who represented His Excellency, Senator Dr. Ifeanyi Okowa, to present the Staff of Office to His Royal Majesty, Obi Sylvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam on the 6th of April, 2022.
Educated at the prestigious University of Jos and Ahmadu Bello University, where he studied Animal Husbandry and Veterinary Medicine, Obi Slyvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam’s thirst for knowledge and dedication to excellence laid the foundation for his remarkable career. He retired as a Principal Research Officer with the National Cereals Research Institute (NCRI), leaving a legacy of innovation and expertise in his field. Affectionately known as S. O Jugai, he was loved by all cadres.
In his personal life, Obi Slyvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam is a devoted husband to his beloved spouse, Obugu-Eze, Rose Mazi Enechaziam-Jugai, and a proud father of seven accomplished children, all graduates of various universities. Their achievements stand as a testament to his values of education and empowerment.
As the successor to Obi Christopher Akazue Gbemudu, Obi Slyvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam has embraced his role with grace and humility, honoring the traditions of the Illah Kingdom while steering it towards a brighter future. Under his reign, Illah has flourished, witnessing unprecedented growth and development.
Guided by the principles of justice and fairness, Obi Slyvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam governs with the wisdom of age and the vision of a true leader. His dedication to his people is unwavering, as he works tirelessly to uplift every member of the community.
As we celebrate the sixth year coronation anniversary of His Royal Majesty, Obi Slyvester Olisadunkwu Jugai-Enechaziam, let us offer our heartfelt gratitude for his exemplary leadership and unwavering commitment to the prosperity of Illah Kingdom. May his reign continue to be blessed with peace, progress, and prosperity for many years to come. Long live the king!
The Senator representing Delta South Senatorial District in the National Assembly, Senator Joel-Onowakpo Thomas has condemned the gruesome murder of 16 soldiers in Okuama Community, Ughelli South Local Government Area of Delta State.
Senator Joel Onowakpo Thomas
Senator Joel-Onowakpo reacting to the needless death of Nigerian soldiers who were on a peace mission in a statement signed by him, said it was a crisis taken too far.
The Vice Chairman, Senate Committee on Defence, thereby commiserate with the military and the immediate families of the slain soldiers
Senator Joel Onowakpo Thomas
While calling for a holistic investigation into the remote causes of the crisis that led to the unwarranted killing of innocent soldiers, he emphasized on the need for the security agencies to go after the masterminds of the heinous crime.
Senator Joel-Onowakpo who also sympathized with the families of those who may have lost their loved ones as a result of the crisis, sued for immediate intervention of both the state and federal governments to avoid further escalation of the crisis.
Senator Joel Onowakpo Thomas
He stressed on the need for the military to tactically deploy intelligence in the pursuit of the masterminds to avoid killing of innocent children and women of Okuama community who may not know those behind the dastardly act.
He however, advised the people of Okuama community to join forces with the military to fish out the killers of the 16 gallant soldiers.
It would be recalled that there has been over some decades of land dispute between Okuama Community, Ughelli South Local Government Area and Okoloba Community in Bomadi Local Government Area both of Delta State.
Senator Joel Onowakpo Thomas
The soldiers were believed to be on a peace mission in the community as a result of rising tension from the age long land dispute before they were ambushed and murdered.
Advocate Lecture Series Board of Council (ALSBC), has announced Prof. Enajite Eseoghene Ojaruega as the Keynote Speaker for Advocate Publication’s Inaugural Lecture Series, themed “Youth Empowerment and Leadership Evolution: Rethinking Nigeria’s Leadership Recruitment Process.”
ALSBC, in a press statement on Monday signed by its Secretary General, Mr. Shedrack Onitsha-Anipr, disclosed that the choice of the erudite scholar, Prof. Ojaruega, was informed by her vast experience and outstanding scholarly works in over two decades.
Mr. Onitsha stated that Prof. Ojaruega was chosen after a rigorous search and thorough deliberations by the ALSBC led by Mr Abraham Ogbodo, former Editor of the Guardian Newspapers.
According to him: “Advocate Lecture Series Board of Council (ALSBC), is delighted to announce Prof Enajite Eseoghene Ojaruega as the esteemed Keynote Speaker for Advocate Publication’s Inaugural Lecture Series, themed “Youth Empowerment and Leadership Evolution: Rethinking Nigeria’s Leadership Recruitment Process. This event is scheduled to take place April 17th, 2024, at the prestigious Wetland Hotel in Ughelli, Delta State.
“Prof. Ojaruega, a distinguished academician, is currently a Professor of African Literature in the Department of English and Literary Studies at Delta State University, Abraka, Nigeria. With an illustrious career spanning decades, she has earned recognition for her scholarly contributions on African literature, gender studies, and African cultural studies.
“She holds a Bachelor of Arts (Honours) degree from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, a Master of Arts from the University of Benin, and a Doctorate in Literature-in-English from Delta State University. Prof. Ojaruega’s academic prowess has been showcased through numerous publications in reputable peer-reviewed journals, locally and internationally.
“In addition to her academic achievements, Prof. Ojaruega has demonstrated leadership and innovation in her role as the Acting Head of the Department of English and Literary Studies at Delta State University. She has also served as the University’s first female Orator, embodying resilience and excellence in her endeavors.
“Moreover, Prof. Ojaruega’s commitment to advancing research and collaboration extends beyond the confines of her institution. She serves as the Coordinator for the TRaCE Transborder Project, a research consortium funded by the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada, aimed at tracing and documenting the international mobility of Humanities Ph.D. graduates.
“Furthermore, Professor Ojaruega’s involvement in community initiatives, such as her membership on the Council of Patrons of the Boys Brigade, Anglican Communion, Nigeria, underscores her dedication to societal development and youth empowerment.
“Advocate Publication Ltd is honored to have Prof. Enajite Eseoghene Ojaruega grace our inaugural lecture series as the Keynote Speaker. Her expertise and insights will undoubtedly enrich discussions on youth empowerment and leadership evolution in Nigeria, aligning seamlessly with the objectives of our event and marking a significant milestone in Advocate Newspaper’s 10th-anniversary celebrations.”
Mr. Shedrack Onitsha-Anipr,
Secretary General,
Advocate Lecture Series Board of Council (ALSBC).
Dr. Ifeanyi Michael Osuoza, Delta State Commissioner for Information and Sam Omatseye, Author and Columnist
Governor of Delta State, Rt. Hon. (Elder) Sheriff Oborevwori has congratulated Mr. Sam Omatseye, one of Nigeria’s most decorated Columnist, Serial author, Chairman, Editorial Board of The Nation Newspapers, on the launch of his new book: “Beating All Odds: How Bola Tinubu became President.”
Dr. Ifeanyi Michael Osuoza Delta State Commissioner for Information
Oborevwori said Sam Omatseye is, without doubt, Nigeria’s most engaging and consistent chronicler of Nigeria’s national experiences, capturing with every offering, the essence and impact of the country’s individual vicissitudes and existential ethos.
“We encourage other journalists and writers to take up the challenge of writing similar books as their contributions to the Library of Thought and Information on our growing democracy.
We salute this great son of Delta State on the launch of his latest book, applaud him for the national and global recognition he has brought to our dear State, and wish him success in all his endeavours.”.
The Governor who spoke on Tuesday in Abuja during the formal launch of the book was represented by Dr. Ifeanyi Osuoza, Commissioner for Information.
Also on the Governor’s delegation are Charles Ehiedu Aniagwu, Commissioner for Works (Rural), and a veteran Journalist, Mideno Bayagbon, a former Editor of Vanguard Newspapers and Publisher of TheNews Guru.com, TNG.
The event had in attendance important dignitaries including Alhaji Kashim Shetima, Vice-President of Nigeria, former Governor of Ogun State, Aremo Olusegun Osoba who was Chairman of the book launch, Chief James Onanefe Ibori, former Governor of Delta State, Babatunde Raji Fashola, SAN, former Governor of Lagos State and erstwhile Minister of Works, Senator Adams Oshiomhole and the Minister of the FCT, Nyesom Wike amongst others.
In his opening remarks, Osoba
said the book was written by an important Journalist on an important man, Tinubu.
He noted that the book provides insight into the travails and turbulent struggle on how Tinubu became President. The former Ogun State Governor said a Journalist who becomes an author deserves to be celebrated.
The author, Sam Omatseye revealed that the inspiration for the book came through a compilation of events and diaries on the 2023 Presidential election.
Dr. Ifeanyi Michael Osuoza, Delta State Commissioner for Information and Sam Omatseye, Author and Columnist
Omatseye informed his audience that the book which is in two parts started with taking notes before the Presidential campaigns and when there was a storm and the fight over naira, fuel, and events leading up to the Presidential primaries culminating in the eventual emergence of President Bola Tinubu. According to him, the book was to put in context all that happened at the time adding, it is as an epitome of destiny which nobody could stop.
Goodwill messages were delivered byTunji Bello, Azu Ishiekwene, Alex Kabba, and Charles Aniagwu while the book was reviewed by another veteran, Louis Odion.
In his speech titled, “Sam Omatseye: A Journey to Unearth Truth in the Depths of History” Vice-President Kashim Shetima said whoever possesses the power to craft words into memorable sentences is an army of one, especially when they see the world through three dimensions.
He described Omatseye as a soldier who embodies the qualities of a rare wordsmith who stands as a courageous sentinel for Nigeria’s history.
The Vice-President observed that Omatseye “transcends the omission of those who shy away from truth in the most uncomfortable places and in the scariest of circumstances. Therefore, he is both a hero of the people and an intellectual” who should be celebrated.
Nollywood actress Rita Dominic has revealed that she was paid the sum of N10,000 for her first movie role.
Rita Dominic made this revelation in a recent interview with Joy 99.7 FM in Ghana.
When asked about the lowest amount she has ever received for a movie role, she said, “The first film I did, the filmmaker paid me N35,000. But he owed me N25,000 for how many months. In fact, he didn’t even pay me the balance. He paid me only N10,000.”
The actress said when she started acting, Nollywood wasn’t lucrative but she was driven by her passion.
She said “I just wanted to be an actor. And to be honest, there was no money in Nollywood back then. We were just doing it for passion. We have the passion for the art which was what fuelled us.
“It was very challenging. But we just kept doing it until the industry got bigger and bigger. And obviously, the pay became much better.”
Nurses in Delta State, under the auspices of National Association of Nigeria Nurses and Midwives, (NANNM), Monday, described Governor Sheriff Oborevwori as a leader who epitomises justice in leadership.
Nurses protesting
The Nurses, who were on a solidarity thank you match to Governor Oborevwori for resolving their years of bondage under the leadership of the former Director of Nursing Services, Mrs Gloria Igumbor, pledged to use their privileged positions to ensure sustained health and wellness of Deltans.
The Nurses, who bore placards with various inscriptions such as “Governor of Destiny, Delta Nurses say Thank you”, “Thank you, our Governor for restoring the hope of Nurses”, “Victory for Nurses will better the health of Deltans”, “The Iroko Governor, Your Commissioner for Health is doing well” “Thank you, sir!”, “Thanks, our amiable Head of Service, ” “We are grateful to the Ukodo of Delta State for good governance, NANNM”, “Our Governor, Your Head of Service (HOS ) is very competent,” among others, commended Governor Oborevwori for resolving the age-long oppression affecting Nurses in the state.
Speaking on behalf of the Nurses, NANNM Public Relations Officer in the state, Comrade Julie Eto, said; “we are here today on a solidarity march and it is all about thanking the governor and all the stakeholders who have redeemed Nurses in Delta State.
“Governor Oborevwori has also redeemed the education of Nurses in Delta State. We are here to say thank you to the Secretary to the State Government because he was the mediator of the meeting that brought in this victory.
“We call it victory because the Nurses in Delta State had been in bondage for many years and now we have been liberated. The only thing we have to say to the governor is that he is an epitome of justice and justice will continue to follow him and his team.
“Because Delta State Nurses are just vessels standing in for God to treat, Governor Oborevwori will never know sickness. His team will never know sickness. You have set the pace for justice and other states will learn from Delta State.”
The Nurses further lauded Governor Oborevwori, saying, “he was taken to court and came back victorious and he asked if there was any injustice in Delta State and he did the same thing that was done for him in court. Within twenty-four hours, he mediated and we got the victory.
“This is just a cross-section of the nurses in Delta State. We love him so much and would not want to close down the hospitals for this march. We are the middle men between the sick and God. We are very appreciative of the Governor and we say a very big thank you to him because we are very happy.”
Gloria Igumbor
Responding, Governor Sheriff Oborevwori thanked the Nurses for conducting themselves very well throughout the period, assuring them of his commitment to ensuring justice in all sectors of the state.
Governor Oborevwori who spoke through the Secretary to the State Government, Dr Kingsley Emu, thanked the Nurses for the solidarity march, and urged them to use the opportunity of their liberation to commit themselves further to the job to ensure that more lives were saved in hospitals across the state.
He said; “We like to welcome you here, and, as a state, we will remain steadfast in what we do. We were not pushed by stories told by anybody, including your stories. We were pushed by the facts of the matter and things that will make the state stable and standout.
“Health is a very important sub-sector of our economy and we can’t afford to meddle with it. You have a big responsibility to sustain the commitment you have made here; even your anthem speaks volume.
“I have looked at all the placards; they are all commendable but your actions should be more commendable. What we have tried to do is to look at all the challenges and agreed to make some amendments to suit you.
“We enjoin you to go back and show deeper commitment to your job and do less of unionism. Unionism is good but everything cannot become a union business because your job will suffer. Like you said, you are the middle men between the ailing people and God. Therefore, you must stand in the gap for the people.
“So, we commend you for your efforts and we enjoin you to go back and do you your job just exactly the way you sang it in your Nurses’ anthem. We appreciate your solidarity and effort”.
Controversial Nigerian crossdresser, Idris Okuneye, popularly known as Bobrisky, has announced that he has acquired female genitals.
The crossdresser claimed he cut off his male organs even before undergoing breast development surgery.
Bobrisky demanded to be addressed as a woman, stressing that he is now fully transgender.
In a recent Instagram post, he wrote: “Let me officially break the news. I now have a female genitals. I have taken off the other even before my boobs surgery. So address me as a woman cos we all instab girls collect pr*k d same way.”
His revelation left many in shock as they thronged to the comment section to express concerns.
Bobrisky, who is a University of Lagos graduate attained celebrity status by being a cross dresser.
Her Instagram account has over 5 million followers.
In May 2019, Bobrisky confirmed that her pronouns are “she” and “her” after receiving several misgendered comments on her Instagram profile.
The witness, Bamaiyi Meriga, called by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), informed the court that following forensic analysis of the disputed documents, he discovered that there was clear evidence of forgery of signature, and the seal of execution were different from the original.
Continuing the trial of former CBN Governor Godwin Emefiele, a forensic analyst has confirmed that the document used to request payment of $6.2 million to foreign election observers was forged.
He also confirmed that the signature were not those of former President Muhammadu Buhari and ex-Secretary General of the Federation (SGF), Boss Mustapha.
The two documents, Presidential Directive on Foreign Observer Election and Presidential Directive on Foreign Observer Election tendered in evidence were admitted in evidence by the trial judge, Justice Muazu.
Nigeria is committed to using innovative and digital technology to prevent, identify and manage conflicts of interest, including by assessing and mitigating corruption risks through effective and transparent financial disclosure, according to the Attorney-General of the Federation and Minister of Justice, Mr. Lateef Fagbemi (SAN).
Speaking at the 10th Session of the Conference of States Parties to the United Nations Convention Against Corruption (UNCAC) in Atlanta in the United States, from December 11 to 15, 2023, Nigeria’s Chief Law Officer said: “As corruption is now aided by the development in technology, we are improving our operations to meet this emerging challenge.”
He said Nigeria has established the Nigerian Open Contracting Portal (NOCOPO) for increased disclosure of procurement information to all stakeholders in order to ensure improved transparency and accountability, to prevent corruption and enhance active citizen participation for better service delivery and improved ease of doing business.
The Minister said Nigeria has suffered from the damaging effects of corruption, including loss of billions of dollars to foreign havens, stolen and expatriated by corrupt leaders and their foreign accomplices, including multinational companies, adding that the diversion of strategic resources continues to challenge Nigeria’s growth and development.
Saying that Nigeria had taken bold and proactive measures to combat corruption and continued to make significant progress in its efforts to prevent and combat corruption, block leakages, and recover its stolen assets, he stressed that Nigeria is committed to beneficial ownership transparency and has adopted a roadmap for implementation.
The Minister said Nigeria had deployed a holistic Beneficial Ownership Register encompassing all sectors, adding: “The Beneficial Ownership Register is online, searchable, and publicly available at no cost.”
According to him, “We believe that focus must be placed on the opaque shell companies that are seeking to exploit sovereign states for their own financial gains at the expense of the security, health, education, economy and infrastructural development of the developing nations. We reiterate the importance for beneficial ownership information to be publicly available and accessible.”
The Minister argued that asset recovery is the “kernel of the anti- corruption fight” as “criminal convictions without asset return will not dissuade the corrupt or serve as sufficient deterrence.”
He said Nigeria expects the conference to continue to re-emphasize clear, unambiguous and uncomplicated modalities for assets recovery and return since proceeds of corruption and illicit financial flows constitute a huge chunk of resources needed for sustainable development.
The Minister stated that Nigeria was not relenting in its efforts at the national level to recover the proceeds of corruption.
He explained that to facilitate the identification and recovery of illicit funds, the government enacted new laws and issued regulations, including the Proceeds of Crime (Recovery and Management) Act 2022; the Money Laundering (Prevention and Prohibition) Act 2022; the Terrorism (Prevention and Prohibition) Act 2022; the Companies and Allied Matters Act 2020; among others, to provide sufficient punitive measures and strengthen the anti-money laundering and counter terrorism financing framework to address gaps in its review.
The Minister reiterated “Nigeria’s unwavering commitment to the fight against corruption and the implementation of our obligations under the convention.”
